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Setting Boundaries Is Not Selfish; It's Survival!

Setting Boundaries Is Not Selfish; It's Survival!

One of the hardest challenges we must face in life is learning how to set boundaries within our relationships. What makes it so hard is the fact that we have grown so used to being a certain way, that it can feel like we are learning to walk again once we decide to put our foot down. Unfortunately, most people will never learn to set necessary boundaries, and I do not want you to fall into that category.
 
In this post, we will talk about recognizing when we need to take a step back and reevaluate some of the unhealthy boundaries we have in place currently. It is not selfish to value the relationship you have with yourself and to notice when you may be giving up too much of who you are. Creating boundaries is essential to your happiness, and it is a means of surviving this often, cruel world.
 
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What I learned in a year of being selfish, sober, and celibate.

What I learned in a year of being selfish, sober, and celibate.

Something had to change, so I changed it. Although hard at first, this year of my life was so important for the growth of who I am as a person. This post may force you to question some of your own actions, but it just might force you to see that something needs to change. Don't be afraid of getting to know yourself. This is how we learn, this is how we heal, and this is how we become the best versions of who we are. 

Is there something you are holding yourself back from? And more importantly, are you treating yourself fairly?